When I was young it was pretty easy to tell the difference between the good guys and the bad guys.
The good guys often wore white hats. And always did the right thing.
The bad guys wore black hats. And/or were ugly. Or monsters. And were bad.
Then I grew up and the distinction between good guy and bad guy became... fuzzy.
In my daily life who is the "good guy" and who the "bad guy" is often subjective. It all depends upon who, if anyone, "loses" in each situation. Truth is, we all have to wear white or black hats depending on the circumstances.
This week I had to wear the black hat more than I would have liked. But it was necessary. There are people here who currently view me as the bad guy. That may, or may not, change as time passes.
I find being the bad guy hard. It's draining.
I hate being the bad guy.